[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]I have spent my life on a womanly quest, often ending in heartbreak {or heartbreakingly awkward photos}. I earnestly sought an answer, striving to be cool, or at least not uncool. It was a gift my mother could not pass down, a challenge my sister did not share. I journeyed alone and it took me 30 years to arrive. I wanted bangs. In 2nd grade I cried when forced to slick back my bangs for a ballet recital, convinced I